Had to share…Via~VT

This is your life. Do what you love, and do it often…. If you don’t like something, change it…. If YOU DON´T LIKE YOUR JOB, QUIT. If you don’t have enough time, stop watching TV…. If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love…. Stop over analyzing, life is simple. All emotions are beautiful. When you eat, appreciate every last bite…. Open your mind, arms, and heart to new things and new people, we are united in our differences. Ask the next person you see what their passion is, and share your inspiring dream with them…. Travel often; getting lost will help you find yourself. Some opportunities only come once; seize them…. Life is about the people you meet and the things you create with them, so go out and start creating…. Live your dream, and wear your passion…. Life is short….VT

Just do it, life is short.

Just do it, life is short.

 

OMG it has been such a rough week! It’s Wednesday and this is my first blog post. I actually have a bunch in drafts but my mind really hasn’t been in a place where I can actually make any sense.

OMG I want to hit someone!

OMG I want to hit someone!

I got rocked this past Sunday…car accident. It came completely out of no where. But that’s how accidents work right? Have you ever been in one? My heart was racing and my hands were shaking. I saw this SUV come straight at me and I’m this little person in this little car. OMG. Nothing like being hit when you’re at a full stop at a stop sign lol. Funny now but I was freaken out!

To top that off, I was gonna trade in my car for something more suitable for my family…meaning my dogs ha ha. But now, all the equality is gone :( Wanna know what’s even worst? My insurance company sucks! I had to call them myself after I already filed a claim. I’ve never been in an accident and was asked by the person who took my claim Sunday, “where is your car going to be so an inspection can be done.”  I said home so I assumed someone was coming out. Waited most of the day and nothing. If I didn’t call they probably wouldn’t have called me till who knows when. Going on day 4 and no adjuster has called me back. And I was told I have to call the other parties insurance to find out if they will pay for my rental. Why do I pay $140-ish  a month for insurance again???? I guess a few tickets will really screw you. So not worth it people. But 2 of my tickets were just crap. They were just looking to get anyone for any little thing. Money is money for them. I am to busy to spend my day in court proving the cop was just looking to pull someone over. That’s not on the top of my priority list.

Lesson learned. When you’re financing a car, especially a new car, make sure you have full coverage and GAP is a must! Just add the GAP insurance because you really never know when some idiot is gonna hit you. That’s what I really hate. You can be a careful driver all you want, but that doesn’t mean you won’t get smashed by someone else. It bothers me when I see people driving recklessly. You’re more than welcome to kill yourself but when you hurt other people, that’s a BIG problem. So if you drive all crazy, you’re an idiot. Speeding and going in and out of lanes…news flash, I’m still behind you. You didn’t get very far. You should be the one hurt and not others. Why is it that a drunk driver normally survives and the others die? Makes no damn sense.

Anyway, yes…GAP insurance a must. It will cover whatever the insurance won’t cover so you aren’t out any immediate cash. Just a car :( Rental car add on is a must when you don’t have another car available to you. If you’re the one who cause the accident anyway. But look at me, I should have rental car now. I wasn’t at fault and I’m still waiting around driving a car that looks  so hurtful. And, if you can get insurance through a company like AAA or Allstate, sign! When something goes wrong, you won’t have to stress out like I’ve had to. It wasn’t even my fault but I’m paying the price. My car that I bought brand new has depreciated a whole lot now.  I missed work (attendance hit and they fire you for being late or absent X amount times). I’m stiff and sore, my car looks like crap, I’m waiting around for my adjuster on day 4, and I pretty much had to take care of everything.  But I did have help…XOXO. Not by my insurance company though. I was so overwhelmed.

Pay a little more money. It will ease your pain when your car is ruined. You’ll still be ticked, but at least your insurance company will make it as comfortable as possible for you.

I won’t say which company I’m with. I’ll go onto review sites instead. I won’t be calling out any names on my blog. Jerks.

What an OMG week! Thanks for reading one of my so random posts! Take care :)

I’ve gone months without eating meat, includes chicken. But yesterday, I failed. Yesterday I wasn’t strong. The feeling of failure is very unkind. A part of me was taken by weakness. I’ve failed :(

I've failed.

I’ve failed.

 

How hard should I be on myself? I let my desire overwhelm me. Has my journey for my fury friend been difficult? F* yes! I love meat, all meat. I’ve always been a beer and BBQ kind of girl. I  love veggies and I’ve never been big seafood person. Meat was for dinner EVERYDAY.

Healthy living is important to me. It seems like since I stopped eating meat I’ve gained weight. More foods are fried. I think I’m so hungry I load up with carbs to fill me. I have to watch what and how much I eat more now than before. Strange huh? I eat a lot of veggies but that seems to be not enough.  It’s been a few months now and I’ve trained my stomach . I’m doing much better as far as what to eat and how to cook it.  I really don’t eat like I use too. I can’t eat rice like I use too either and boy I love rice!

 

Why take this journey?

Simple. Animal cruelty. I’m not gonna lecture and make anyone feel bad. We choose our battles in life and do what makes us happy. With a growing population, we need to force breed in massive amounts. Which means more steroids, more crop to grow, more water used and more of the environment we abuse. Humans are smart, so therefore we are on top of the food chain and we eat EVERYTHING. Did I say I wasn’t going to lecture? LOL This is nothing, TRUST me!

Here are a couple of links to some information if you’re interested.


http://www.mercyforanimals.org/


http://www.thevegetariansite.com/env_animalfarming.htm


http://www.sustainabletable.org/265/environment

 

Is failure inevitable? 

I think so. How else would we get better, improve? If all our wants and dreams were simple to obtain, it wouldn’t be very exciting. You want to live an exciting life don’t you? I do. Even though failing is disappointing, I know there’s a reason for it. We need to learn and move forward. Experiences, emotions…that’s what being alive is all about. Love, lost, happiness, despair, success and failure.  There are good and bad choices. Right and wrong ways. Compassion and selfish behavior. It’s life.

I take pride in being a good person. I take pride in making a difference. I always try to be a better person. My choices in life are to benefit the people  I care for, the less fortunate, those who can’t speak for themselves (like animals), the earth…whatever is in my power I will try to do. One day we will not be here. When they day comes, what will you leave behind? What will be said at your funeral? How much will you be missed? How many lives have you changed? You should live your life with these thoughts in mind. They are important. Live in a way that makes YOU proud of yourself. It wouldn’t hurt if others were proud of you as well.

 

I am my own worst critic.

I’m not perfect, none of us are. But we ALL can do better, be better. As for me, since I fell off the cliff,  I’ll have to start over again. The only problem is I still want chicken! I use to LOVE  steaks and all kinds of pork. But now I don’t have a problem turning that away. It’s just the chicken I’m struggling with. My dilemma is – what if I only buy humane certified chickens? Will that be better? Because I don’t mind that people eat meat, I just hate how it’s processed. I wish more people would stop eating so much meat. We should buy from humane certified farms only but that’s a long shot. It’s a little more expensive.  Not a lot of farmers really care so it’s not available at a lot of stores. Supply and demand? Foster Farm was just recently certified. If more people cared about how inhumane these animals were treated and killed, then maybe more of these horrific factory farms wouldn’t exist. Wal-Mart you suck! <<< gestation crates. Imagine if you couldn’t even turn around. You were stuck in once spot FOREVER :(

I’m still battling with the chicken…what do you guys think I should do? Help me! 

 

Remember…looking the other way doesn’t mean bad things don’t happen.  Please care enough to make the world a better place for everyone, every living creature and everything that produces life. Our children will live on and have their own kids. Is that enough reason?

So in closing, I’m not going to beat up myself over this. I try, I’m trying. And that my friends, should be enough…right? It’s not how many times you fall, it’s how many times you get back up that counts. I’m going to continue my journey and probably fail again, and that’s OK. :)

I really liked this and had to share :)  If you’re going through it, STAY STRONG , everything will work out in the end.  Have faith.

Once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain, when you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about….Via VT

 

Everything happens for a reason.

Everything happens for a reason.

I’ve learned it’s not lack of time, it’s not knowing what your priorities are.

Blogging

Blogging

When we don’t get things done, whether it’s a list of 10 or 50, we usually say it’s due to lack of time.

The famous “LIST.” We have have one and sometimes hate it. I hate it often :/ It should be updated daily and should never take 8 hours to complete. Don’t add too much cause you’ll never get it done. That will result into you feeling like crap. Not good. There should only be 2 major tasks, other little to-do’s aren’t in dire need of immediate attention.

The work force consists of 8 hours and the truth is, we can get a lot of what’s needed to be done in half the time. If there was better planing, better time management, we’d spend 3 hours at work and the rest of our day doing what we really want. But, time is money when you trade hours for dollars. You can’t really do anything about that besides find a job that fits your needs better or become an entrepreneur.

Let’s get back to our to do list. We always have tons of things to do. But the beauty of a list is- you can number them. From most important to least important. If you stuck to this list daily, you’d get so much done. It should be like brushing your teeth :)

Cut out the fat. Doing things like checking email, Facebook, etc…is pure fat. If you have articles to write, know exactly how much you want to write. 2 articles a day, or 1 article a day with a minimum of 1500 words. Make sure it’s something sustainable. You want quality content but aiming too high may lead you to stop all together. Fine the medium. You need to set rules for yourself in order to achieve the reason behind it.

Be productive. I'm working on an article while most are sleeping.

Be productive. I’m working on an article while most are sleeping.

You have a house to clean, grrr…I hate cleaning the house. I don’t find it therapeutic, I just find filth unnecessary. I have to tell myself NO CLEANING today, work on other things…but I find myself cleaning something anyways. In order to trim down the fat, I had to create a routine. Come home, make dinner, watch Ellen and spend about 45 minutes picking up. At least this way, I don’t get overwhelmed. There are only a couple of things I limit myself to per day.

How about time…with family and friends? You really can’t say you don’t have time. Just just have more important things to do. We hear the saying over and over again, life is short. You don’t know how long anyone will be on earth, think about that.

Again it all comes down to priorities. It’s not lack of time, just lack of awareness.

Never again say I don’t have time, just say I have other things of more importance.

If you’re a person with a schedule, (who sticks to it) you probably manage your time well and in return you are more productive. There are some things that you have to NOT do in order to accomplish the bigger tasks. Should you wash your car by hand when you still have a report that’s due  tomorrow? Probably not. Take your car to the car wash instead. Skip phone calls, emails, going out…all these things are considered fat when it comes to getting what may be difficult DONE. You don’t always want to do what you should, but you should. So get your priorities straight, it’s not lack of time. We have 24hrs in one day. That’s 1,440 minutes you have to get things done. 86,400 seconds. Sleep is important. Our bodies are different. I personally need 7 to be productive. I’ve done the testing :) Anything less than 7 makes me crumpy and foggy minded.  But when something needs to be done, I don’t sleep and just load up on caffeine. Eating healthy helps with this as well but that’s a later post I’ll dive into with you. When you’ve completed your task, REST.  Find your balance.

Daily to do list….do not sleep until you do them. (should be two major ones)

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Track what you do.

There are sites that actually monitor exactly what you do online. But the truth is- you already know what’s a waste of time. How much time do you watch TV? I think you know if it’s too much. How many useless conversations do you have? How much cleaning do you do? How many night outs of doing nothing do you have?

You need to keep a log of your daily activities. Make sure it’s detailed. From what site you went on, how many times and how long. Do this for everything you do for the entire day. Even how much sleep you got. Be honest! When you look back on it, you’ll see exactly how much time you’ve wasted. All the “I didn’t have enough time,” was merely less important than everything else you got done.

Entrepreneurs, if it’s not making you money, stop it. Students, if it’s not adding to straight A’s, stop it. Parent’s, if it doesn’t bring you and your family to a happier place, stop it. Work smarter, not harder. You have objectives in all areas of your life, focus and stop wasting time.

Happy productivity :) Happy heart :) Happy all around :)

We have objectives, goals. Focus.

We have objectives, goals. Focus.